{"id":241,"date":"2020-08-01T20:17:44","date_gmt":"2020-08-01T20:17:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/practicaltherapyofedmonds.com\/?p=241"},"modified":"2020-08-01T20:17:44","modified_gmt":"2020-08-01T20:17:44","slug":"apologies","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/practicaltherapyofedmonds.com\/?p=241","title":{"rendered":"Apologies"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8230;are more than just the words, \u201cI\u2019m sorry\u201d.\u00a0 In fact it\u2019s an entire <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">process<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> but there are only four steps!!<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><b>Acknowledgement<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">; identifying the offense and how it would affect the other.<\/span><\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Apology<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">; the words, \u201cI\u2019m sorry\u201d.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Promise<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">; yes, these are just more words for now.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Proof<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">; this is why we tolerate the words.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is the proof of promises that break cycles of \u201coffense &#8211; apology- offense &#8211; apology, etc<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is the proof that satisfies the suspicion, \u201cyou\u2019re only sorry you got caught.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is the proof that allows for forgiveness to lead to trust development.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is the proof that gives the words any meaning! No more empty promises.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Meet with me for further suggestions and support with what the heck proof really looks like!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">FYI, psychotherapy has been a great example of proof for my clientele as it gives opportunity for Consistency.\u00a0 People need proof of Consistenty to alleviate the anxiety of, \u201cI\u2019m just waiting for the other shoe to drop\u201d.\u00a0 People can distrust improvements when there is no Consistency experienced. <\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8230;are more than just the words, \u201cI\u2019m sorry\u201d.\u00a0 In fact it\u2019s an entire process but there are only four steps!! &nbsp; &nbsp; Acknowledgement; identifying the offense and how it would affect the other. Apology; the words, \u201cI\u2019m sorry\u201d. Promise; yes, these are just more words for now.\u00a0\u00a0 Proof; this is why we tolerate the words.\u00a0\u00a0&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/practicaltherapyofedmonds.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/241"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/practicaltherapyofedmonds.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/practicaltherapyofedmonds.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/practicaltherapyofedmonds.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/practicaltherapyofedmonds.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=241"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/practicaltherapyofedmonds.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/241\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":243,"href":"http:\/\/practicaltherapyofedmonds.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/241\/revisions\/243"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/practicaltherapyofedmonds.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=241"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/practicaltherapyofedmonds.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=241"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/practicaltherapyofedmonds.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=241"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}